Kucing Gatal Speaks

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Survey: Which race is best in bed?

This kucing is conducting a fun survey on sexual prowess to reinforce/dispel racial stereotypes and you're all invited to participate.

Basically all you have to do is leave a comment telling me who you've had the most sexual fun with according to their race/nationality, i.e. Malay, Chinese, Indian, French, German, American, British, Australian, Canadian, African, Japanese, etc. If you've got a few memorable occasions with different races, rank them - the more the merrier!

A lot of men are of the opinion that Malay girls are great in bed as they're willing to experiment, while some swear by Indian chicks, and others say Chinese women will do anything you want as long as you reward them with material goods. I want to know how far this is true. Women, what's your point of view? Which kind of man is the best in bed?

Personal experiences welcome.

For me personally, I tend to gravitate towards Indian men. There's this one guy in my group of friends who has a really penetrating gaze and when he looks at me, I wish he would penetrate me literally. His gaze alone gets me wet especially when we're out in a group, and we're staring at each other from across the table. We've done some light petting but for some reason, some sort of unspoken agreement, we've never gone all the way. Maybe one day we will...

Another experience I had with another Indian man is also worth mentioning. This tall dark and handsome fellow (really!) had an office that he shared with a partner. One night we ended up there and one thing led to another. I was straddling him on his chair and we were getting it on. I was a bit uncomfortable because I kept imagining that his partner had a webcam installed somewhere, secretly capturing everything but this guy kept reassuring me. Anyway we then ended up on the carpeted floor and to cut a long story short, DNA testing can now implicate the both of us ;) It was a short-lived thing though, something we mutually agreed upon, as we had no interest in a long-term relationship with one another.

In cyberspace however, I find that American men are really good in turning you on. There was this one guy who had a sexy drawl, and combined with his remarkable way with words, it was an experience to remember. I've said before that cybersex doesn't do much for me but this guy was an exception, along with two other Americans who remained my Net sex partners for some time. Still, those days are long gone and I'm so much more into the real thing now.

But enough about me, I want to hear from you. So start working those fingers and share your opinion!

Till next time, this is Kucing Gatal signing out with a stereotypical Meow.


  • best shags i had:
    1- tall, dark & hensem Singh fella - he can go down on me for the whole night and the best kisser
    2- tall and hensem arab man - yummy-ness factor X 100
    3- small-ish Indian man with huge schlong - no need to explain
    4- tall, lanky dutch - his blue eyes can pierce my soul..plus he's well endowed too.

    i'd rate malay and chinese as so-so.. suddenly i crave for my singh fella..

    By Anonymous Ms Statistic, at November 17, 2005 12:00 PM  

  • I dream of Japanese chicks. Because I had a Japanese wife in my past existence.

    Unfortunately, I have yet to be laid by a Japanese female in my current life. Wish me luck.

    By Blogger xaph, at November 17, 2005 3:27 PM  

  • best sex kuching? hmmm...any man can ram..but can they fulfill you with a cum?
    I've had my share of half dead dicks and 1 minute men..but a cummmmm??

    By Blogger BLaCkFeLiNe, at November 17, 2005 7:39 PM  

  • Ms Statistic: So Indian is #1 for you too I see ;)

    Xaph: In that case your Japanese vote doesn't count. Only real (and present) life experiences count ... so please vote again :P

    Blackfeline: Errr.... well all I need to know is which of these 1 minute men gave you the most pleasure.

    By Blogger Kucing Gatal, at November 18, 2005 9:03 AM  

  • hmmm..I guess..since I stayed with my bf for 4 yrs..he's the one..and he's malay..altho I did prefer only african americans before him :p

    By Blogger BLaCkFeLiNe, at November 18, 2005 9:25 AM  

  • In terms of length of Lan Jiao:

    India Veli Long
    Bengali veli strong
    Cina veli like sotong
    Melayu sudah Potong !

    By Blogger Lin Peh, at November 18, 2005 12:11 PM  

  • kucing...
    correction.. not Indian as no. 1. My no.1 is Singh :)

    By Anonymous Ms Statistic, at November 18, 2005 4:44 PM  

  • i would think technic, touches and emotions plays a bigger role than just physical appearance. Of coz equipment also must be at least of reasonable size.

    you list down so many races, aiyah, how to possibly try them all.

    so far i would rate malay as kinkiest and highly sexed.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 18, 2005 5:05 PM  

  • Ms Statistic: Singh is Indian ethnically ;) No need to break down into further details like Malayali, Punjabi, Tamil, etc etc.

    Anonymous: Those I listed are just examples, you're welcome to go ahead and try them all, but all I need are ratings from your personal experiences :)

    Lin Peh: So are you saying Indians are best too?

    By Blogger Kucing Gatal, at November 19, 2005 4:13 AM  

  • Being of Indian-Chinese parentage, i know that one treads relatively deep waters when one pigeon-holes desciptives according to ethnic origins. However, for what its worth, i'd like to submit my previous sexperiences with a variety of ladies prior to marriage:

    Malays - generally the most expressive. they dont hold back when it comes to having a good time - be it orally or straight sex.

    Chinese - not particularly good in bed, unfortunately. rather wooden and less inclined to take the lead.

    Indian - pretty shy initially. but when they're in 'heat', they release all tensions and are supremely 'panas' in the more erogenous zones.

    Anglo-Aussies - rather adventurous in bed. willing to assume different positions and do take the lead and arent ashamed to inform you where they enjoy being touched.

    Having said all that, i am now married to a Kadazan-Chinese. And in total biasedness, i reckon they have to be the best if my wifey's calisthenics are to be taken as a benchmark. She loves various positions, and has a tendency to orgasm multiple times *smiles*. Although it takes some severe foreplay to get her sufficiently lubricated, whens shes in 'vroom mode', theres no stopping her.

    By Anonymous Marko, at November 19, 2005 2:28 PM  

  • this is the dumbest entry u posted. i've been out with many different races. Pussy is a pussy.

    By Blogger The Squatter, at November 20, 2005 3:20 PM  

  • Pseudonym0us, I agree that this isn't one of the better posts around, however I think this is far from the dumbest. I've been to your blog. And you certainly don't sound like a man whose been getting some. In fact you sound like a nerdy social outcast who dreams of hot women but who has to rely on his own hands for pleasure. Have a good day!

    Back to the survey: I find Caucasian men can be very persuasive in getting you into bed but they're not all that hot once they're in it. Indian is number 1 for me too!

    By Anonymous Piscean, at November 21, 2005 5:37 AM  

  • Marko: A bit too much info there about your wife but thanks for the statistic - Chinese it is.

    Pseudonym0us: I disagree.

    Piscean: Thank you - it looks like Indians are turning out to be #1.

    By Blogger Kucing Gatal, at November 21, 2005 7:05 AM  

  • Kucing Gatal - pardon moi over-exuberance about my wifey, but i tend to give credit where its due:)..n btw, its Kadazan-Chinese; the Chinese per se used to be a tad boring for me..

    Pseudonymous - why the uncalled for hostility?

    By Anonymous Marko, at November 21, 2005 8:48 AM  

  • wow..must try indian gals lar. if a gal can have multiple orgasm, then it's a bonus...

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 21, 2005 10:47 AM  

  • Anonymous : hell yea multiple orgasm sure is fun, but loads of work on the guy's part la. if u cepat pancit no stamina, then sorry la dude. before she hit the 3rd one u dah kaput.

    anyways, just one question. doesnt indian guys smell like bawang when the get all sweaty and peluh during sex? well, that's what ive been hearing frm my friends who's currently dating some indian lads.


    By Anonymous tarehgemuk, at November 21, 2005 11:25 AM  

  • i'm sure gals luv multiple orgasm. stamina is a must but not compulsory if u know wat makes her ticks....

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 21, 2005 12:17 PM  

  • i've been with malay gals n chinese gals. malays are better coz they know how to pls men and they definitely know what they want in return.

    chinese? static, i must say. too unfortunate, how i wish chinese is better when it comes to intimacy.

    to the guy who said this is the dumbest post so far: dude, dumb or not, it's all perception. if you wanna see it as dumb, then dumb is what you're going to get.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 21, 2005 8:43 PM  

  • so far, based on a set of 3 malay dudes and 1 chinese dude.. chinese dude can go down for HOURS and generally other than the occasional hiccups, wins in ALL departments =D ..

    *meowrr~* this is a fun topic..

    By Anonymous yummyneku, at November 22, 2005 2:45 AM  

  • from my personal experience

    malay - the best. inside out.
    indian - smelly
    chinese - no imagination

    By Anonymous shima, at November 22, 2005 6:31 PM  

  • Hmm... difficult one. I kinda have a thing for Americans - I like the accent and I do prefer 'em cut. Best shag I ever had, though, was with an Aussie bloke. And with an Austrian. And with several Danes.

    By Blogger Jay, at November 22, 2005 6:33 PM  

  • I AGREE with Piscean. Caucasian men are good in getting you in bed with them but they're far from good (based on my experience which was bad bad bad- Russian bloke).

    I think Malays are willing to try everything and they care for you emotionally as well (during sex). Well, that's my guylah. I dun know bout other Malay dudes.

    Eh eh, Chinese gals are not all bad ok. Depends on their character also ;)

    Anon number-i-dunno-what is right in saying that stamina is not compulsory when you know your spots well =) That, I give credit to the BF. He's a keeper. Definitely.

    So Kucing, that's Malay for me.

    By Anonymous S-Kay, at November 23, 2005 12:47 AM  

  • looks like malays n indians are popular here.

    I've had chinese and malay gf and i must say my malay gf is dem highly sexed and kinky. She was the best shag i had. I'm sure other races can be at par too but i've not meet one yet.

    Stamina is a bonus for the gal when u learn how to pace urself and knows wat makes her tick.

    Like they always say, safe the best for last

    U had a russian bf and was bad in bed ? and know ur malay dude is satisfying ur needs ? From my observation u must be very good in bed too..

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 23, 2005 10:11 AM  

  • Anon : Well, I wouldn't know but I would like to think that I am good in bed ;) Lemme ask the BF again whether I'm good in bed or not. LOL =P

    By Anonymous S-Kay, at November 23, 2005 1:40 PM  

  • s-kay..

    u know u're good when u have total control of him. u decide when he cums or not.. :)

    as for me if she cums purrring like a kitten the next morning, i know i've done a good job.. ;)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 23, 2005 1:45 PM  

  • Decide when he comes or not? Well, the BF would say to me "You're so naughty" when I do that *grins*

    By Anonymous S-Kay, at November 23, 2005 2:40 PM  

  • damn it. are chinese gals that bad in bed? such bad reviews! bloody conscious of my sex partner's opinion of me now.

    it is rather unfair to comment which race is the best if someone only have sex with one person from each race. Or only have sex with a handful of different races. But heck! This post is fun.

    I would say Arab is the best for me but my current partner, an English is amazing and very adventurous in bed.

    By Anonymous chinesegal, at November 23, 2005 2:50 PM  

  • s-kay,
    u should push further till he says "I SURRENDER!"

    don't despair. i'm sure every cloud has a silver lining...

    arabs ? i hear they are well endowed

    one thing i like bout malay gals is most of them takes care of their kitty....

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 23, 2005 3:44 PM  

  • anomymous, thanks for the words of consolation. Still concerned. Last thing I want to be remembered as was a rigid Cold Fish!

    I agree with what you heard. The one I like best is not that well endowed, but his skills, abilities and the rest compensate it all.

    By Anonymous chinesegal, at November 23, 2005 4:06 PM  

  • it's not about race
    it's not about face
    it's all about skills
    that's the one tat kills

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 23, 2005 4:24 PM  

  • lol. that is one damn good rhyme. i agree with you wholeheartedly.

    By Anonymous chinesegal, at November 23, 2005 5:09 PM  

  • Well, watever race you are, if you're open and willing to be a wee bit adventurous...your sex life would be ooh-la-la (provided he/she is too) ;)

    By Anonymous S-Kay, at November 23, 2005 5:46 PM  

  • malays and kadazan girls tops my list most definitely. though i've been lucky enough to snag a deviant, open minded and raunchy chinese girl lately, lol!

    its not about the race or color, its the skills... that very true *grins*

    By Blogger seth.frostheart, at November 24, 2005 3:48 PM  

  • Indian, Chinese or Malay
    All is good, when one can play
    Big or small not whom to say
    The best fuck will always stay

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 25, 2005 12:41 PM  

  • From the results, it would seem that on the local front, Indians and Malays are the most favoured. So there you have it boys and girls.

    Some of you have commented that it doesn't matter what race you are as long as you have skills. I agree with that wholeheartedly, just wanted to see if there is any truth to stereotypes ;)

    By Blogger Kucing Gatal, at November 25, 2005 1:01 PM  

  • I am Italian and I love all asian women, but I prefer chinese girls.

    I have tried any race and color, but I stay with chinese women and i prefer those with a light brown skin.

    After you have been to bed with an asian woman, no more interest for caucasian or african women ... just asian

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 27, 2005 9:53 AM  

  • Being Indian, thank you all very much...blush...

    Asian girls are the bomb! My personal fav. was a lundayuh girl - adventerous, hot, good looking etc.

    I think every man/woman has a lot to offer their partner if they click well. If they don't, no matter what the person has, there will always be something missing.

    Just my RM0.02 la.

    By Anonymous Davinci, at November 29, 2005 12:55 AM  

  • Pardon my ignorance, what's a lundayuh girl?

    By Blogger Kucing Gatal, at November 29, 2005 9:23 AM  

  • Ethnic people from one of the areas in Sabah, specificcally Tenom/Sipitang area

    By Anonymous Davinci, at December 01, 2005 2:01 AM  

  • Ah, I see.


    By Blogger Kucing Gatal, at December 02, 2005 9:25 AM  

  • thank you for your blog

    By Anonymous Davinci, at December 02, 2005 11:35 PM  

  • before this i alwayst think that races r not important at all..after experienced quite a few...i can make a conclusion that..INDIAN guys are the best.they care for their partner emotionally and physically who is definately my BF..haha..and mat saleh is gud too..LOL

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at March 31, 2007 11:56 AM  

  • girl always girl.....
    all get pussy
    the most important how they care of them...hee
    i like thai girl they good in care also in service....
    indon...not verygood outside..
    but the inside really tight ate jamu to many heheh
    malay...they clean..
    always give very good care of their pussy internal and external
    they know how to perform good
    chinese also ok........but little bit smelly...
    i not comfortable w their skin may not all/...some of them...
    not very good in service...
    cannot continously.....ahha

    By Blogger joey2769, at March 31, 2007 12:21 PM  

  • Personally, I love Chinese women. They are hairless, tight and submissive. You can pretty much do anything with them. Though, some Indian girls drive me wild with their sheer energy and sexual aura. I love their brown pussies and asses. Yum...

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 09, 2007 4:32 AM  

  • Well guys.... Im sorry to say that INDIAN guys are the best! Max. penetration.

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    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 26, 2008 7:27 PM  

  • I like bumi married girls. They are easily excited and beg to please. Also easy to leave when you tire of them. Indian girls are too smelly. And China girls are boring in bed as they just lie there.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at September 22, 2012 5:26 AM  

  • I like indian guys...theirs are long and thick....my bf can go down on me for the whole night... he just never tires down... Negros are also good...my ex was a negro guy... But pros apart, they're quite rough in handling and they dont usually care our pain.. and they love to do rear entry alot...it would have been enjoying if not for the extreme pain and rough handling.... I'll vote for Indian guys for overall...

    By Anonymous Alice, at May 31, 2013 10:43 AM  

  • I am a Malay girl with tinge of Indonesian/Indian/Arab blood. I had f few physical contacts with the opposite sex but only had sexual experience with my current chinese BF. He dated whites, Black, chinese, South American and Malay before. He used to work in New York for 10 years. He told me he likes Malay girl best cause he thinks Malay girls are very sexual creature, have big boobs and culturally interesting. My tight and juicy pussy makes him wild. I love my chinese BF and think he is of decent size, gentle but rough when it is desired. Get horny easily. He is also very open to my adventurous need. I dont know why many people complaint chinese are boring creatures but I think my Chinese BF is highly sexual and I like that part of him. He can go all night. Turning me into an orgasmic machine. He rocks my world. ♥

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at October 21, 2013 6:21 PM  

  • My wife of 16 years is Malay and is steaming hot in bed. Nothing has been off limits, including threesomes. There has never been a single time she hasn't been in the mood. But further proof has been our recent forays into new territory with other Malay women. She basically talked her best friend (a Malay Singaporean) who is in a sexless marriage to jump into bed with me and despite being 50 she went at it like a 20 year old. And as with my wife, nothing was off limits. I finished off my first time with her with anal. After that, another Malay who came to visit who was an old friend (also in a lackluster marriage) had a threesome with us and it was incredible to watch those two go at it. My wife went down on her pussy with more passion than even I could muster.

    By Anonymous LovesMalays, at July 05, 2014 7:43 PM  

  • But the sex alone isn't the complete story. I love how she teases. Not long after she came to the U.S. to join me, we went to visit my best friend. The first morning I woke to find her preparing breakfast while talking to my friend. She was wearing her camisole and a pair of sheer string bikini panties, the very same pair that always got me so hot and bothered. She teased him mercilessly like that through the years until last summer when the three of us went down a new road together and had a threesome. My wife had always talked about fantasies of double penetration and it finally happened. She said it was "mind blowing" and now it's a regular thing.

    By Anonymous LovesMalays, at July 05, 2014 7:51 PM  

  • Finally, one last thing-- is it a Malay thing for women to think they're not "cheating" if they use a condom? In 2000 my wife had a torrid 8-month affair with a man that I didn't know about until years later but she says she never cheated because they always used a condom, so there was no direct contact. I didn't think too much about this until I bedded her best friend who also wanted me to use a condom only for the purposes of not cheating on her husband!

    As for my wife's affair... it turns me on to think about it now. I was completely unaware at the time. I was in a bad job, incredibly stressed and had lost a lot of my sex drive. She had said, before we even married, that she couldn't go without sex. The affair itself was with a guy she worked with over their lunch hour at his condo next to their office. They met everyday,five days a week for 8 months. Even when she was on her period she'd suck him off. Despite this daily shack up, she still was an incredible wife, making home cooked meals and taking good care of me. And if I was in the mood, she happily fucked away as though there was nothing else going on in her life.

    By Anonymous LovesMalays, at July 05, 2014 7:58 PM  

  • One last thing (this subject has me riled up)--- aside from the daily fucks she also ran off with the guy mentioned above once on a trip that their company paid for-- they were to attend a conference at a beach town but they never bothered showing up and instead spent their entire weekend together in their room. She says she lost count of the number of times they fucked (including once while she was on top and talking to me on the phone.) It was on that trip she purchased her first thong bikini which she proudly wore on the beach with her GQ partner. It was only on this trip that she learned a new trick-- after the guy would cum she'd remove the condom and lick out the contents. At the time weren't using birth control apart from condoms and I distincly remember her doing that the first time for me.

    By Anonymous LovesMalays, at July 05, 2014 8:37 PM  

  • Actually, I guess I'm not done-- speaking of cum, are Malay women more likely to swallow? The first time I came into her mouth I was amazed that my wife swallowed. I had been in a few relationships and usually cum was treated as though it was toxic waste. One Vietnamese girl I fucked for a while didn't even like cum on her skin-- she'd go to the trouble to wash it off immediately. Again, I thought this was was unique to my wife until her friend who guzzled accommodatingly. (She was only shocked with my wife's condom trick because the condom had been inside of her as well.) Her other friend actually likes to play with it. She doesn't mind sharing it, either. I enjoyed watching her snowball my load with my wife but she also did the same for me, although it was nothing new as my wife has done it before (my wife actually snowballed my friend's cum into my mouth-- an altogether new experience and one that would disturb me if not for how arousing that is for her.) Anyway, my wife says she has never not swallowed. Her first-ever fling was when she was 17 and would sneak off to go for a ride with a guy she liked on his motorcycle. They'd go to East Coast Beach in Singapore where, after a few hot make out sessions, and things were getting too hot for her (she didn't want to have sex, believe it or not, wanting to wait until marriage) so she relieved him starting first with hand jobs but then moving on to BJs. She told me that she really learned to love doing that and enjoyed the feeling of having a red hot, throbbing cock in her mouth. His orgasm was a sign she was doing it right and knowing it was a huge turn-on for the guy to know that she swallowed, she has always done so faithfully. As it turned out, one night at the beach she couldn't hold back anymore and let him inside. She wasn't prepared for the experience and the guy hammered away despite her wincing in pain. She also asked him not to cum inside her which he obliged by coming on her shirt and leaving a bloody splotch from where he wiped it off. She was sore and it wasn't helped by the motorcycle ride home. Needless to say, she never saw him again.

    By Anonymous LovesMalays, at July 05, 2014 8:56 PM  

  • By Blogger Supriya Basu, at August 03, 2014 10:25 AM  

  • My girlfriend tried Malay and Indian before. I guess she enjoyed both....however she never discussed her experience but out of shy or malu i assume she had a great time with an Indian. As for me, I am a Malay. we have tried everything from straight to anal and i can say she enjoy every minute of it...But honestly, she says on the honesty side, its not the cock size that matter, is how the dick make her feel good on the first 1 inch of her pussy!.....
    So dick size and width don't count. It goes to how you satisfy her in bed is the main thing. My dick is a good size, but when i make her enjoy...she don't want me to stop...!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 14, 2014 2:23 PM  

  • Dick size don't matter. Some Malay girls do like to try out the Indians and Chinese for the feel...Like my GF. My GF try Indian guy...Did for 10 mins...(Not true, I'm sure its 30mins to 1-hours on a first sex)

    I know some indians friends, they can go on beyond 30 mins...and love to try many positions, especially when they have it with a Malay girl knowledge that Malay girls is the most adventurous from normal sex to anal sex. But when they get satisfied things they don't want to do, they mostly will do it...

    So it depends, how you satisfy a man and a woman. A woman is basically on the first inch inside her vagina. You don't need a long and big dick if you know how to satisfy a woman.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at November 14, 2014 2:27 PM  

  • I am indian n any kucing gatal wanna to have fun?

    By Blogger shamba, at January 04, 2015 8:38 PM  

  • By Blogger Mim Sharnal, at October 01, 2016 7:23 PM  

  • wow

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at December 30, 2016 11:27 AM  

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